The once-private turmoil between Kenyan comedian Mulamwah and his ex-partner Ruth K has erupted into a full-blown public scandal, with nude photos, bitter accusations, and threats dominating social media. The fallout has exposed deeply personal grievances, alleged manipulation, and a relationship that collapsed under the weight of mistrust and public scrutiny.
The Breakup That Sparked a Social Media Storm
Mulamwah, whose real name is David Oyando, took to social media to air his grievances against Ruth K in a scathing post. He accused her of destroying their relationship, disrespecting his family, and seeking validation from online strangers. His lengthy rant, written in a mix of English and Swahili, painted Ruth as the architect of their downfall, claiming she ignored his warnings about toxic friends and let jealousy consume her.
“You broke your own home with your two hands,” Mulamwah wrote. “I warned you about those so-called friends… Now you’re crying wolf.”
He further alleged that Ruth added 84 women to a WhatsApp group, falsely claiming he was HIV-positive, and even sabotaged his comedy show by manipulating sponsors. The comedian didn’t hold back, warning her that “life is not a Nigerian movie” and declaring that he was done protecting her reputation.
Ruth K Fights Back: Threats, Revenge Porn, and a Plea for Dignity
Ruth K, however, has a different story. In her own posts, she accused Mulamwah of emotional manipulation and revenge porn. She revealed that he had been threatening her with a private video they shared years ago, even sending it to her family members.
“My ex has been manipulating and threatening me with a private video,” she wrote. “He’s crossed the line. Let him post it—I won’t be held hostage anymore.”
In a separate post, Ruth hinted that she had damaging content about Mulamwah but chose not to release it out of respect for their child. “I choose dignity over revenge,” she stated, emphasizing that the law prohibits such actions.
The Nude Photo Scandal Goes Viral
Amid the war of words, explicit photos allegedly of the couple began circulating online, further fueling the controversy. While neither has confirmed the authenticity of the images, the leak has raised serious questions about privacy and consent in Kenya’s digital age.
Legal experts warn that sharing intimate content without permission is a criminal offense under Kenya’s Cybercrimes Act, punishable by fines and imprisonment. Yet, the damage to personal reputations is often irreversible.
Public Reaction: Divided Opinions and Moral Lessons
The feud has split public opinion. Some side with Mulamwah, applauding him for “exposing the truth,” while others condemn his approach as vengeful and misogynistic. Ruth’s supporters praise her restraint, framing her as a victim of revenge porn and emotional abuse.
Psychologists weigh in, noting how toxic relationships often play out publicly in the social media era. “When private conflicts go viral, the emotional toll is immense,” says Dr. Wanjiku Mwangi, a Nairobi-based therapist. “It’s a cautionary tale about trust, boundaries, and the dangers of airing grievances online.”
What’s Next for Mulamwah and Ruth K?
As the scandal rages, both parties seem unwilling to back down. Mulamwah has vowed to “name and shame” those he claims conspired against him, while Ruth maintains she’s done being silenced.
One thing is clear: this messy breakup serves as a stark reminder of the perils of love, fame, and digital footprints. Whether reconciliation or legal action follows, the saga has already left an indelible mark on their lives—and on Kenya’s social media lands
